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04

Aug

I will no longer be using the site.

When I made it, it was a tool to get to know people through their likes and dislikes, to delve into the things that people couldn’t say in person for whatever reason, but people are not themselves on their social media and in turn it’s got me nowhere. It’s been a good run but I will continue to try and find the niche that keeps me going.

02

Aug

Occasionally we let someone in, we open the folds of our insecurity and give access to the darkest parts of us. We hand over the key, and it’s terrifying. And sometimes they bump into a raw nerve, they say a callous insensitive remark, they ridicule a strange notion we have, they poke at our dreams just a bit. It hurts pretty bad and we push them out and fold up fast. We remind ourselves, “This is why I don’t let anyone in.” And we run.

It’s right here that most people apologize like crazy. They feel terrible. They were trying to figure out how to navigate the labyrinth of your wonderful story. It’s like holding a tiny flash light in a cave of a new world. They didn’t mean to provoke those old wounds. They didn’t mean to poke fun at your dreams. They considered it an honor that they held the key, even for a few frenzied moments.

Intimacy takes work, trust, wounds, hurts, sculpting in the dark: and that takes time. It takes more than a single chance. Of course we can close the doors, at any second, when we know it just won’t work. But there are many opportunities if we had trusted a little longer, reset the tempo, and spoke up louder: it would’ve been okay. Bridges would be built. New stories are made. You find your hand closing around theirs. They begin to traverse the folds of your heart with ease, and they learn to say those things which give life, which give freedom, which grow dreams. Intimacy is formed out of stumbling, but further down the path: there is so much light, so much laughter, so many steps to the horizon together.

01

Aug

lolfactory:

Kids Everywhere Pick Up on Memes☆ funny tumblr

lolfactory:

Kids Everywhere Pick Up on Memes

☆ funny tumblr

31

Jul

wannajoke:

It’s nachos night

wannajoke:

It’s nachos night

30

Jul


Don’t be the slave of money nor of money worshippers.

Don’t be the slave of money nor of money worshippers.

expressions-of-nature:

Moon over Marginal Way by: Robin Keus

expressions-of-nature:

Moon over Marginal Way by: Robin Keus

29

Jul

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